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OLGA ZHURAVLEVA: In Moscow, 17 hours and 12 and a half minutes. You are welcomed by the program "Typical case" and Olga Zhuravleva, and sound engineer Natalya Kuzmina. And our topic today is: "I am being forced to do what I do not want." In fact, there are strictly 2 diametrically opposed opinions. And they were expressed on the Internet by our listeners in questions before the broadcast, rather even in replicas than in questions. “It is impossible to force a person to do what he does not want. If forced, then wanted. In all life situations, even the most difficult ones, there is a way out. You just need to look at the problem with an open mind and allow for the possibility of a non-standard solution, ”a person under the nickname Lapochkin 2 writes to us. But ... someone agrees with him. But there is an opposite option: “There is not always a choice. Yes, the decision is made by the person himself, even if under the influence of someone, but this decision, perhaps, is not from a good life, to put it mildly. Forcing to do also may not always be the wrong thing to do, for example, in relation to children. To force reasonably naturally, in moderation. Well, let's talk today about cases with adults, even if they are someone's children. Well, in any case, capable adults who either believe that they are being forced, or there complain that they are being forced. Just for the sake of interest, with such a set of search words, I looked at the questions that are asked most often on the Internet, where they turn to diverse communities. “Here is my mother and now my father is strongly recommended, pressured, pressured, practically forced to marry a person who I don’t like,” is one of the remarks. “I am enraged by parents who force a child who has graduated from school to do not where he wants or has the ability, but where he sees fit.” Absolutely typical case. “My mom is forcing me to have an abortion. Help solve the problem. I don’t know what to do when I found out that I was pregnant, my parents went crazy, they force me to have an abortion. I'm 21 years old" and so on. “I explain to my husband that I don’t want to lose weight. My husband himself is far from Alain Delon, but he makes me mock myself. Just imagine a situation when an adult complains that someone is forcing him to eat or not to eat, to play sports or not to play sports, to get married or get married there, to change jobs, to write some, I don’t know, paper, well, not to mention the fact that such a fairly common set of words recently in the search is “forced to go to a rally”, sign something or write ... “I am forced to write a statement on own will. I do not want to do this". So I understand, when the enemies, the interventionists, I don’t know, when they force something to be done by force, they force them out of the house, threatening them with weapons or physical violence, they demand to give something, I don’t know, there is money or something -then. Even knock out a confession. Yes? We also know that it happened in our history. Although even then there were people, which is already evident from some, as they say, declassified and accessible to posterity documents of interrogations of their ancestors, their relatives there, that even in the event of severe pressure, severe physical suffering, many people did not agree that they spies, they wanted to kill Comrade Stalin or something else. They were forced to do it literally. But some of them didn't. There really were such people. But now I'm still talking about a situation where, physically, nothing seems to threaten a person. Well, when a husband makes you lose weight, he probably doesn’t drive a stick around the apartment, because then it’s a completely different story. Although they say that, for example, parents do not give birth to a child, if a spouse forces them, then this is simply reproductive violence. This is generally a completely separate category of family, domestic violence, and it is considered by experts as a separate such story, although it is also very difficult to imagine. Either this is a husband, there is a person closest to you, or this is some kind of tyrant, despot and literally a rapist, and ... Well, in general, everything here is already at the level of crime.

“My husband is forcing me to give birth, but I don’t want to.” Here, too, under this slogan, several topics have been raised on the Internet.

“Please tell me what to do if the director makes teachers work on weekends without pay.” Also an interesting question. How does it force? What threats, I don't know what dangers lie in wait for a person who says: “No, I will not work for free. Here is my contract. Here is my salary. Here I have that. I will not work". That's what's going on? What makes a person agree with such violence? Because it is violence in any case, even if it is psychological. True, there is still such a moment that Alexei noted in the questions that if a person was forced, then it was more convenient for him, it was better or easier that way. Everything else is just excuses. There is still such a moment of manipulation. Yes, here Lapochkin writes about it. If you love me, do it. Or if you are a true patriot, vote this way and that way. Yes, it's also manipulation. But what makes a person agree to this manipulation? Because, again, when they write about parents, it often seems to me that a person complains about his fate, but relieves himself of responsibility. I got married, or I didn’t marry for love, I live with the wrong person there, because I was forced to. And it's not like I'm to blame. Here are the pens. Everything is fine.

Please tell me if you had such cases, did you ever have such a situation when you were forced to do something, and really you didn’t want to do it deep down, but you did it, or went to the end. And by the way, what were the consequences? And now, loving parents, if you love us, you will go there somewhere. Will your parents fall out of love after that if you don’t do it? Just such a completely naive question, perhaps, but an interesting one. The same with the husband. If your husband stops loving you because you weigh 55 kilograms there, and not 52, then the question arises: what kind of relationship are we talking about in principle? Plus 7 985 970 45 45 is our SMS phone. And 363-36-59 is our phone number for your calls.

Anna from St. Petersburg: “Of course, parents can force an unmarried girl to have an abortion. If she disobeys them, who will support her child?” So the question is that the girl, well, in this case, the young woman herself does not know what she will support the child for. She's counting on... she wants to force her parents to support him? Then it's a completely different story. Agree. If she believes that she can handle it herself, they force her. Then another question.

“There is still to be. I don’t want to wash the floors, but I have to,” writes Evgeny from Penza. Eugene, I laughed a lot when I read today also suffering, how to make your wife wash the floors, for example. Q - The men's thread discusses how to do this. Or now February 23 is over, again they are forced to wash the dishes. Also counter, so to speak, the army acts.

Ilya writes: “It’s interesting, but what is the best way to react when they are forced to do it, somehow in order to show one’s disagreement, or to do it for granted, but for the last time?” Ilya, it depends on the situation, because in the case, for example, with a marriage you do not want, one is as it should be ... So what? Or the last time - more, mother, you will not marry me. Well, how? "One must have a presentiment and right time leave the field of view or not fall under the arm, unless obliged and subscribed to that, including final result, maybe". Dear distant friend Voronezh region, You would send your name. It would be easier for us to talk to you.

“At the age of 11, my parents forced me to join the opera house choir. I didn’t want to, but my parents insisted, they didn’t let me sit at the computer and took away my mobile. In the end, I had to. Now I am 18. I am ready to thank them for the fact that, after 7 years, singing at the opera house gives me pleasure. Alina, I will say again that after all, with regard to children, this is a delicate matter, because there are children who really don’t know whether they want or don’t want, however, they don’t quite understand whether they are talented in this area or something else anything. Sometimes... Yes, some kids can be pushed or forced or coaxed or whatever. But some cannot, and right away. Somewhere from the age of 5, it is no longer possible to convince them of anything. Well, here you will sing. But I won't sing. Moreover, we have probably seen situations among our acquaintances many times ... That is, your parents probably understood what would happen, that you really didn’t really want to study in this very choir of the opera house. It's like a happy coincidence. I know people who were forced to do, for example, there ... well, it doesn’t matter what, there go to music school or go in for sports. Some really went there, well, somehow sighing dejectedly, but, nevertheless, they studied there, graduated, passed some exams and received some ranks. And someone just categorically does not ... How should I say this? These duties were rejected. They hung out anywhere with those "Music" folders. They simply sabotaged any occupation. That is, teachers could not deal with them, because the person does not want to study. And this is impossible to force. That is, if a person does not want to sing, then he does not sing in any way.

“I don’t want to, but I need to,” the transfer from Airat from Tatarstan goes on, “to visit my mother-in-law, clean the house, wash dishes, cook, plant, weed, collect potatoes, run in the morning.” Airat, you have a very serious schedule. I think that you actually understand what is needed, which means that there are still internal sensations. Just laziness. It happens. Well, or something else unpleasant.

Semyon from Starye Vasyuki is stern to himself: “Well, you’ll make me fucking get it. If you try, you will regret it.” Semyon, I am pleased to deal with such a determined person.

Ruprecht writes that "where you sit on me, you get off there." Well, here is the same case. I have already mentioned to you many times the recommendation of psychologists, including our dearly beloved Mikhail Labkovsky, that if you don’t want something, don’t do it. Just say that you don't want it, that it's not for you. And your life will be much better if you are clearly aware of what you want, what you don’t want, what you need to do and what you can’t.

So. “I have always lived my life the way I want. It is impossible to live all your life on your head, ”writes Elena. On the head in the sense ... from the mind making decisions or something else? But in general, how convenient is good, you know.

So. “I never did anything under pressure. On the contrary, I always did so that others would do what I needed. Dmitry from St. Petersburg is a noble manipulator. And by the way, there are very good manipulators in the sense that there is nothing unpleasant or anything bad in this word. A person skillfully manipulates so that everyone is happy and happy to help him. There are some, as you know, in the memoirs of Akhmatova, various friends of her wrote there, I don’t know, friends and so on. She was a queen, carried herself a queen. And many people considered it a happiness to do what she needed, to help, I don’t know there, to solve everyday problems, something else. Here. Well, it is clear that it was impossible to force her to do anything if she herself did not internally decide to do it. But at the same time, it didn’t seem to force anyone by and large. Well, it happened. There are such people. Truth.

“My brother makes me choose a birthday present, but I don’t want him to give me anything,” writes Igor from Syzran. Igor, don't cry. You can somehow persuade your brother, I think. If you love me, brother, believe me.

So. The dodo from St. Petersburg is going through everything, he does not want Crimea as part of Russia, but they are forced, then they will also force him to pay. Dodo, well, you hold on. What should I do?

Eugene writes that when he is forced, he suffers, but then comes off to the fullest. Well, by the way, in the case of children who entered somewhere for their parents, I knew such people. There are people who just like that ... Well, they didn’t even force them so much as their parents told them that it was better. And they honestly did it. They themselves did not know what they wanted. And there are people who said, “Yeah, okay. Do you insist? Good. Deal". But either a person from the 2nd year, starting already, went to the dressing and did not study, and made sure that he was expelled. Or a person at some point. Having finished there, he brought this crust, said, “Are you satisfied, yes?” All. And then he went to play the guitar in the passage. Or something else. Because such things just don’t go away, it seems to me, if they are forced to.

“Emotional pressure is hard to bear, but when it’s unbearable for you, it’s even worse. You show character, and those who pushed back, ”writes Elena. Here's how.

So. “When a girl complains that her parents are forcing her to get rid of the child, I am sure that this always means that she was counting on them to support her.”

Anna sends to her own text message: “Probably yes.” But then the story is not that they force me, and I'm so unhappy, and do something. The person shifts responsibility. She actually would have done exactly the same if her parents had not been able to support her. So, then, we are not talking about the fact that her parents went crazy and force her, but we are talking about some other story.

Maxim from Yamal writes: “I am soft. I hate myself for it." Maxim, work. We will support you.

“There is this idea in the Bible: “Oppression can even make a wise man act foolishly.” But we are not talking now… we are not talking now, again, about some such, let's say, global stories, when a person is forced to do something by force. How I don’t know there… All the lives there describe stories when a person is forced to renounce his faith, for example. And he endures terrible torments, and yet he does not renounce his faith. This is fundamental for him. There are really very few such people. In less such global things, it is very difficult to insist on one's own. This is true. But now we are talking about situations when they are forced precisely by such emotional pressure: persuasion, small or not very small threats, but not physical violence.

“Probably, it is possible and necessary to force sometimes to fulfill their or assigned duties, for example, doctors or an official who is obliged, including by virtue of the oath taken ...” Somewhere like that, probably. You know, to force again ... To force to be a good doctor if a person does not want to be that doctor ... Of course, you can take a salary there, I don’t know, shout at him, intimidate him, bring him to court. He won't be a good doctor anyway. I am deeply convinced of this. If a person who was forced to learn was forced to go to work, and now they are trying to force him to fulfill his duties. Well, he will formally fulfill them. So what? I still remember one doctor on duty in the emergency department, who discharged a patient after severe injuries. And when he arrived a few hours later and found out that he had a ruptured spleen, and he needed to be operated on urgently, because he was literally dying. And another surgeon asked her: “Why did you let him go?” She says, “Well, I'm a neurosurgeon. And he didn’t get worse in the head.” This person cannot be forced to fulfill his duties in the way we imagine it to be. That is, saving lives or something else. A person formally performs his duties. And you can shoot yourself here. And do whatever. Nothing will happen.

“Why should I visit people I am not interested in? The wife says every time: it is necessary. Me: who needs it? My wife says: it means you don't love me. Gregory, or maybe she doesn't love you, so she makes you do what you don't want. Try turning this way. You torture me, you probably don't love me. Let's talk about it. This also happens.

Well well. “I thought for a long time and came to the conclusion that no one could ever force me to do anything by force, because in the end I decided everything myself, choosing a more acceptable option for myself. There is only one dictator - it's me and the word "must". It seems to me that people who complain that they were forced simply do not want to be responsible for their actions. Olga from Tyumen, it seems to me that you are looking at the very root.

We will continue this conversation. Remember your stories. We will receive them by phone, listen to your arguments. Olga Zhuravleva. "Typical case". Don't go anywhere. See you after the news.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: In Moscow, 17:35. The program "Typical case" continues. “They force me to do what I don’t want to” is the theme of our program. The case is really typical. There are several ways out of it. Yes? Someone believes that in some situations it is possible to force a person, and then he will be grateful to you for it. Well, in particular, one of our listeners writes that he forced his wife to quit smoking. She was very resistant. Now grateful. Well, deep down, she knew that it was necessary. It was just difficult. It's great that you made it. There is such a situation when, for some reason, you, well, do not dare to start doing something, and you somehow need a motivating kick, this one, which helps a lot, because there are also a lot of such calls on the Internet: make me do something. Now you will all start screaming, and I will finally start doing something. There are people who are great at getting away from any unnecessary activities, turning them into pure profanation or simply sabotaging the process. When you are forced to go there not to those guests that you do not like, you behave there, well, as God puts on your soul. And then the wife says: “Lord! No, I'm not going anywhere else with you. Why do I need it? You’re there again, I don’t know, you’ll be rowdy, you’ll quarrel with your aunt or something else. ” “But there is such a more refined form,” Nina writes. - A colleague boasted that, at his wife's request to buy pasta, he went to the store three times and brought successively vermicelli, horns, shells. Then they didn’t send him anywhere around the house.” Of course, I understand that the case is very typical, but keep in mind that on the other hand, forcing, there may also be someone creative. And so, maybe you will be forced to do something differently.

“In a difficult situation, they forced me to go to a fortune teller. Went. But I still felt disgusted. What nonsense! And how they broke me through the knee, ”the same Nina writes. This is what happens. Sometimes people write: they forced me to sign there, write, resign, on the contrary, get hired there or something else, agree to something ... I was in such a state that I could not resist. It's true. But in certain situations, it seems to me that a person, having succumbed to some kind of persuasion, feels a certain relief. Well, okay. Well, I'll do what they say.

“And I am not allowed to leave the house for a long time except for work. Of course, an elderly mother is offended if I want to go for a walk. It’s a shame, because I’m 38 years old.” Look, we need to do something about this. Ilya, is that you? You haven't subscribed, but I suspect it is you.

“And I'm a henpecked. How can you refuse a young lady? They are all so good." Sergei, henpecked - this is also a very good way of existence. You are always satisfied. You are always glad to see. It's great!

So. Ruprecht writes: “As a child, my mother made me study well and do my homework. Now I can paste over the toilet door with my diplomas.” Ruprecht, if you were not capable of this, there would be no diplomas. You would just stupidly do your homework. Stupidly they would get triples for them. And apparently, you had some makings.

Ivan system administrator: “No one can force me to explain to employees for the 2nd time how it works this program. The priest does not serve two masses. Charm. Ivan, if you would have written a little more clearly in Russian, then, perhaps, everything would have been clear from the 1st time.

“I can’t force myself to stop listening…” But don’t, Oleg. Go on. This is fine.

But Ilya is interested in whether he makes us Chief Editor do what you don't want to. Well, we kind of gathered in order to work. Yes? And if you really don’t feel like working at all, then, probably, lie down, sleep, and everything will pass. Well, that is ... No, we are not forced to do what we do not want to. Now, if you are talking about this. Yes? There, to broadcast some programs that you don’t want to, or, I don’t know, to talk to people with whom you don’t really want to talk - this is also a task, to be honest. And she's pretty interesting. Don't know. But in this sense too. It's exactly the same as with a child who can be made to have fun. Yes? Say go play with the boy. If you don't want to play with it, at least kill yourself, they won't make you play with it. And the same is true in our case. We are all such children. It will immediately be clear that the person does not want to do this and will sabotage accordingly.

363-36-59. The code for Moscow is 495. Please tell us your stories, how you were forced, and how you reacted to it. And what really happened? You really did not want to do something, or in fact, deep down you were forced to do what you yourself needed to do.

Here Pavel from Dubna writes: “I was forced to lose weight for a long time. Weighed 135 kilos. He actively resisted. Then he looked at himself in the mirror, thought: “Do I need it?”. Bottom line: minus 50 kilos. Pavel, I congratulate you on this. But you see, until you yourself came to this feeling that this is necessary, that you need to somehow change the situation, you could not force it. Just like I know a lot of stories about the fact that we are there, I don’t know ... We also talked about this, about alcoholism and so on. How many times psychologists have said that if a person himself is not going to be treated for alcoholism, you will not force him. You will not cure him even if you bring a doctor by the hand, if you invest all kinds of money there, if you pour out all possible vodka. Until a person wants to, nothing will happen.

Alla writes: “A 12-year-old child has strong flat feet. He refuses to do gymnastics for the feet. As long as my legs don't hurt, I won't. We spat and fell behind." Allah, yes. Well, you can't do gymnastics for him. Yes, such a story. Well, of course, if his legs hurt, he will remember your persuasion.

363-36-59. The code for Moscow is 495. Your stories are our attention accordingly. Hello! Hello! We listen to you.

LISTENER: Hello!

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Oh! Excuse me, please. The call broke off. Something is wrong there. Hello! Good afternoon! We are listening to you. Hello!

LISTENER: Hello!

LISTENER: My name is Olga.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Olga, where are you calling from? If possible, the receiver somehow ...

LISTENER: I turned it off.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Yes? Well, it means that we just have such a booming ... We are a long echo of each other.

LISTENER: So, I'm calling from Samara. Mom considered it necessary with dad at one time to drive me to school with teaching a number of subjects on English language. It was true suffering. Now I am very grateful, because sometimes I have to talk with high-ranking officials from foreign countries and I get an exclusive interview. This was the 1st round. The 2nd corral was - since my dad was the head, which means in a defense enterprise of a large department, I went, of course, to study at the aviation institute, where there were 250 boys and 35 girls.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Not bad.

LISTENER: Yes. Well, I worked after him. I loved my profession. But when the conversion began, a terrible word, I went into journalism. So now I love her.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Tell me, Olga, well, that is, you were directed or forced, as it seems to you.

LISTENER: I was told that it was necessary. As they say, the party said it was necessary, the Komsomol answered yes.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: That is, you did not have a desire to confront your parents?

LISTENER: No.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Well…

LISTENER: Although actually a leader. I understand that as Vladimir Vladimirovich Putin, I am also Libra and the Dragon in the zodiac. That is, you can imagine what kind of character I have. But when there is a senior comrade who explains to me argumentatively that this is necessary, I do not argue.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: I see. Thank you very much, Olga. Thank you for this call. This is also an interesting point. If a person reasonably directs you somewhere, then even if you didn’t have a desire before, you suddenly realize that this is reasonable, this is right. It is clear that to explain to an 8-year-old child that he will need a foreign language in good level, well, quite difficult, frankly. Although there are people who are forced to do even such simple things. So he hates then all his life what he was taught. I even know a different story. I know a man who, too, being very gifted, finished school perfectly and easily entered a very serious technical university, and finished it also perfectly. But then he finally left ... So he did everything to his parents that they wanted, what they considered right. And then he became an artist. Entered the Stroganov School, began to exhibit. Everything is great. And then another idea came to him. Went to learn something else. But for myself. This is a paradox, because I met many people who… in my youth it was still very much in vogue, my parents believed that such a profession was still needed in the hands of such a profession. That is, not an artist, not an artist, not a musician, not something like that, God forbid, not a philologist, but something technical, an engineer there. And these people, after they finished their institution, sometimes even worked for some time in their specialty. They said goodbye to this specialty and started life anew. I don't know if it's good. Probably, any experience is useful. But I don't know how good it is.

“Life forces me to go to work,” writes Stas from Novoperedelkino. Well, when life forces you, then, of course, it is more difficult to negotiate with her. These are not parents.

363-36-59. Your story. What made ... Do you remember, we had the program "Life forced"? Here everything is clear. When you say that you were forced by your relatives or the authorities there, or something else, what do you mean? Why are you being forced? Hello! Hello! Turn off the receiver. You are already on the air. You are from Petersburg, if I am not mistaken.

LISTENER: Yes.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Hello! What is your name?

LISTENER: Hello! Vladimir.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Yes, Vladimir?

INTERVIEWER: I want...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: The receiver is audible, unfortunately. May be…

LISTENER: I want to tell you an interesting ...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Yes?

LISTENER: … history. It was in the distant 70s.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: So?

LISTENER: I came to my father-in-law with my mother-in-law, to my young wife. Well, my father-in-law had such a habit of mobilizing everyone to plant potatoes. And I really didn't want to. It was May 1st. Holiday, inspiration. Well, after all, my wife shamed me, and we went. I dug a huge hole. I put potatoes in it. Buried. There, of course, then nothing grew. And they didn't call me again.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: I'll tell you a typical case.

LISTENER: A typical case.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Absolutely typical case. Tell me, why didn't you want to help your father-in-law there?

LISTENER: You know, not that I didn't want to. It's... Well, how can I say? It was his hobby. Well, I mean, we didn't need that...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Well, that is, no one died of hunger without this potato.

LISTENER: Yes, of course. It was just, so to speak...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Indulging someone...

LISTENER: Yes.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: … weaknesses.

INTERVIEWER: So I didn't even know...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Oh!

INTERVIEWER: So...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: I understand.

LISTENER: I collected it the same way.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Clearly. Tell me, Vladimir, have you ever had to force someone to do some important things? To study? Work? Change jobs? Well, how would you like it?

LISTENER: Well, probably, only the son had to be forced, but, unfortunately, not always successfully.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Did relations with your son deteriorate because of what he did not do, as you said?

LISTENER: Well, not forever, but for a while, yes.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: I understand. Well, it means that your son is also quite a strong person, and you can’t just take him to fu-fu like you with potatoes. So in that sense, everything is correct. Thank you very much, Vladimir, for this call.

LISTENER: Thank you.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Thank you. Well, it's amazing when strong-willed people are faced with the same strong-willed own children. And this is always interesting to watch, because there is a 3-year-old child, and that's it, nothing can be done against what he wants.

“At the age of 38, my mother did not let me in ...” This is cool. “I want to be forced to fall in love, for example,” writes Igor from St. Petersburg. Yes! Indeed, when a mother does not let an adult go there, it is even a tragedy, it is not even funny anymore.

“When our child was 10 years old, we made him go to a health camp. As a result, a week later, his wife took him. He achieved this by cunning. Apparently he got sick. Since then, I have never been forced to do anything. They thought it was right. I have exactly the same nature since childhood. If they force me to do something, I will stubbornly resist.” Pavel, in this sense, you were convinced from your own experience. I also knew the children who were sent to the camp, but it was contraindicated for them. So they didn't want to in the first place. It will be interesting there. There will be something. There will be something. And it was really interesting for everyone around. All were friends. Everything was wonderful. The man was left alone. He booed all the time. He was in tears and snot all the time. In the end, he was taken away ahead of schedule, because it was impossible. And the counselors were already saying: yes, you know, it’s probably better to take it away, because the child doesn’t get pleasure, but it’s just no good. This is true.

Here Sergei, 30 years old, answers that unknown boy who refuses to do gymnastics. I remembered my mother's persuasions about gymnastics for the feet. “I didn’t do that. Now I regret it." “Yellow”, however, you wrote. I guess I'm sorry, right? “You must admit that our adult parents are often right in strategic terms. That is, our resistance to this is simply selfishness and not foresight.” Ilya, I don’t agree, because sometimes adults who strategically believe that a boy needs to marry a girl they don’t like or something else, they don’t do very well a good choice, do not do very well in this situation. It seems to me. Maybe I'm wrong.

“The task of the teacher is to make the child strive for knowledge like a withdrawal addict for a life-giving dose,” writes Lapkin. Oh! Strongly written.

“If you need to, but don’t want to, for example, wash the dishes, you should try to bring creative moments into the work, thinking out how to do it better, more interesting, etc.” Digger agrees with you. This, by the way, with children also works great with small ones, for example.

So. “Freedom is a recognized necessity. You can’t bring the category of freedom of action into the unconscious, otherwise you are a victim of circumstances and didn’t choose.” Vlad, it seems to me that many victims of circumstances simply refuse to choose, so that someone else makes the choice for them, and relieve themselves of responsibility.

363-36-59. Hello! Hello! Ouch! The call broke off. Excuse me, please. Hello! Good afternoon! We are listening to you. Hello!

LISTENER: Hello! Hello!

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Hello! What is your name?

LISTENER: My name is Oleg. I also want to speak.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Yes, yes. Where are you calling from?

LISTENER: The city of Petersburg.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Yes, I am listening to you.

LISTENER: It happens… I had such an interesting situation with my son. Initially, I tried to teach him something, forced him, and, in principle, the results, of course, were. For example, every summer, throughout the summer, practically, every day we studied 10 English words and one poem. The result is a great memory. But over time it grew, and I came to the conclusion that, perhaps, it is not necessary to force. And as a result, the guy developed a complete loss of strength. He was interested in nothing. That is, on his own, without my pushing, he did not come to anything. This is such a sad experience.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Tell me, what do you associate this experience with? What is he used to, that you direct him and did not listen to your own desires?

LISTENER: No, I think he developed a contradiction...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Then I won't do anything at all. Yes?

LISTENER: Yes, yes.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Sad story.

LISTENER: And I myself think that it is necessary to force it. From the example that he himself also grew up, he is already an adult and is grateful that when they forced me, I learned something.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: I see. Thanks a lot. Thank you for this call, Oleg. Here's an interesting story too. It's one thing to teach, show, I don't know, tell. I’ll be honest, I couldn’t force it, I’ll say it straight. It seemed to me that the child is gifted in terms of drawing. I told, showed, explained there. I went to art school for 8 years. Persuaded. She studied there once a week in the corresponding drawing group. I came, the picture is the same as it was when I left. The person does nothing. Not interested. Well, so what? Force you to sit? Stand with a stick over her? Well, how? Yes, probably, if she graduated from this art school, it would be easier for her now. That's what she wants to draw, she would draw more there, I don't know, successfully, and so on. And, maybe, in general, would have beaten off any hunt. I had a moment when I really didn’t want to draw, but it was already too late to retreat, and I ended there with grief in half. I had great company there. And I still use those skills to this day. But I can’t say that I was just forced to.

“My mother taught me from childhood to the idea that I was gifted and smart, although I raised it very liberally without a father. As a result, having taken up music, which I loved since childhood, quite late at the age of 18, due to the circumstances of my place of residence, I nevertheless became a professional and earn it. A sense of duty to one’s abilities helped.” Oh how! That is, not directly - let's beat, sit down, study, you're so talented. Yes, this is good.

“Oleg’s call is directly about me,” wrote Igor from Syzran. “As soon as someone started to force something, the interest quickly left.”

Well well. “Why not just a philologist? Why is the specialty bad? Well, this is... You understand, it all depends on the specific time. It once seemed that real work is when a person works at a plant as a chief engineer. Here is the work. But this, when he sits in the library, this is not work at all, but some kind of disgrace. Well, of course I don't think so. Every job is important. And each person is capable of something different.

363-36-59. One more call. Hello! Good afternoon! We are listening to you. Hello! Hello!

LISTENER: Hello!

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Hello! What is your name?

LISTENER: Me? Marina.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Marina, where are you from?

LISTENER: I am from the village...

O. ZHURAVLEVA: From the village?

LISTENER: Yes.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: I just couldn't make out the name of the village.

LISTENER: …weave.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Good. OK. I take your word for it, Marina. Tell me, please, did you force or are you being forced?

LISTENER: Well, it’s like this… We have sort of gone through this topic, that my husband forced me to have an abortion.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: What are you doing?!

LISTENER: It was a long time ago. In the end, we broke up with him anyway, because he began to drink very heavily. I had two small children. The third he did not allow me to give birth. And no matter how I resisted ... My mother came, and her friends all came. Why breed poverty? You live so badly. At that time, we did not pay wages at the base. Here.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Did you want a third child?

LISTENER: I really wanted to, because we did not have children for 6 years. Then a girl was born, then a boy. And I also wanted a third. Here. And my mother cursed and said: “He drinks from you, drinks. You can't, you can't." And yet everyone persuaded me, I went for an abortion. And I still regret it. Well, as if I have already repented before God, but the sin turns out on me.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Yes. In fact, the responsibility is on you in any case.

LISTENER: Yes. And in the end, we broke up with him. So I raised the little ones alone. And so far. And the apartment was changed. And that's all. But, in general, life is like that.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Tell me, Marina, but if you relate to this experience of yours, now someone, I don’t know, would force you to do what you don’t want, would you succumb for the 2nd time?

LISTENER: …of course not. Moreover, now, as a believer, I know that this is a sin, that it is impossible. Then there was no believer. I just listened to what they told me.

O. ZHURAVLEVA: Well, they persuaded me after all. I see, Marina, thank you very much for calling. This call was very important for me, because these are the stories, they just say a lot. But if a person went on about, everyone else has already forgotten how they persuaded, and then the person lives this story all his life. Not bad. I think this is a very serious story. I wouldn't persuade anyone. If a woman has made a decision, then it is her decision. All. Because, I don’t know, I wouldn’t take on such responsibility.

“I heard demobilized people who were forced to plant potatoes in the colonel’s dacha, made a demobilization chord, sowed it in the form of a star. At the end of May, a military-patriotic garden sprang up at the colonel. Fu, you! Thank you. Good story. Well, by the way, about forcing me to do what I don’t want, this is just the Soviet army. Many who served told all sorts of stories about how they were driven there to do this or do that, and what they did as a result. When people actively do not want something, they can be forced there by force, threats, and so on, but the result is the strangest.

"The son hated school, believing that prison is for children." Anna, is he wrong?

“There were three of them. I went only out of respect for my parents. What should have been done? You know, if you went out of respect for your parents, then everything seems to be fine. But if a person believes that school is a prison for children, then maybe somehow this task could be made a little easier for him. I don’t know, at least now, I don’t know when it was, but now, in any case, many people at home are somehow coping. Yes, schools are different. And, well, I don't know. The question is, of course, a difficult one.

“After a long absence from the gym, I force myself every day to work hard, but in moderation in the gym. A week later comes the buzz. Sometimes I force myself. Efficient as hell!” - writes the optimistic Vitaly from Kazan. Forcing yourself and forcing someone else are two different things.

And now, you know, in conclusion, I will ask you this question: can you be forced to go to a rally if the topic of this rally disgusts you? Not just laziness, I don’t know anything or there is something else. Here to force. The boss will threaten, he will say there “ay-ay-ay”. Is it possible or not? Just. If yes, I can be forced to go to the rally, then 660-06-64. A rally or some kind of event related to ideology. If you think that you cannot be forced for any reason, maybe you are just so independent and work for yourself, or maybe just, as they say, where you sit down, you get off there, then 660-06-65.

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O. ZHURAVLEVA: Once again: please tell me, is it possible for you, exactly what you are now or what you are at the moment, where you work or do not work, can you be forced to go to a rally that is not close to you thematically ? That's not close. If yes - 660-06-64, if no - 660-06-65. Yes, we remember those people who work in some special industries, who find it difficult to find a job, or who receive little, or something else. Is it possible or not? If you can - 660-06-64, if you can not force - 660-06-65. So far the spread is quite interesting. Let's literally, well, 30 seconds vote, and in the final I will announce.

Eugene immediately unsubscribed: “I can’t, I’m my own director.” Good.

“The best thing is your own example. When the younger brother does not want to do anything, we do it together, and he is really interested, ”they write to us from Tomsk region. Yes Yes. This is true.

“In the 1st grade, my parents forced me to study English with a teacher. I fought for six months and won, I quit. After 5 years, I was drawn to reading in English. Now I work as a translator,” writes Gennady. BUT! See! It happens.

Thanks a lot. It is pleasant to note that only 7 percent said they could be forced to go to the rally. But 93 is impossible. Note to the owner. "Typical case". Thanks to all. All the best!

Sobesednik.ru columnist tells where to complain if you are forced to vote in the 2018 presidential election.

News of "forced" voting is not the first election. Usually they are next to “what can I do”, “everyone agrees and me”. All this fits perfectly into the pyramid "who, if not him", on the basis of which you can think of anything...

But seriously - what to do if the authorities make you vote in the elections? How to complain? What responsibility, at least in theory, does a leader have?

So, do not forget that elections must be universal (all able-bodied people who have reached the age of majority vote), equal (one citizen - one vote), direct (a citizen elects himself, and does not transfer this right, for example, to an elector), voluntary with the secret of voting. That is what the law says.

In an ideal situation, a violation of the law should be documented - the audio or video recording here is absolutely on business, and that it was done in secret - so protecting the public interest makes the secrecy of this procedure quite legal. In addition to audio and video, you can get the testimony of other citizens, collect everything and attach it to the application to the prosecutor's office. A complaint can also be addressed to the territorial election commissions, but only the prosecutor's office can move the matter forward. You can also complain anonymously - the verification must nevertheless be carried out.

If you want not to conflict at work because of this, but still make an honest choice, then conformism can be ... falsified. Usually, coercion to vote is reduced to the requirement to send a photo from the voting booth - with an image of a ballot with a corresponding checkmark. You will vote in a separate booth - this ensures the secrecy of expression of will - and you can do whatever you want there: “check” the box so that after photographing the ballot you can vote as you like.

Do not be afraid: the ballots are not registered - to prove that you ignored the illegal will of the authorities will not work either with your skill or with your integrity. Bosses are most afraid of the fact that they will not control you to the end.

And the funny thing is that you can do as the boss requires, and then go to the election commission, saying that you accidentally put the wrong sign or the wrong sign - and your ballot is recognized as spoiled, giving you another one to vote.

There are many exits, but everyone has one honor. Spending it, albeit in the elections of the “most important”, as it seems, but in fact elected only by you, is not worth it ...

To summarize: if you are forced to vote, you can complain about it (it makes sense to attach evidence to the complaint: audio, video, testimonies of others); you can pretend to do what you are told without actually doing it. Choose only for you. And to the argument “what can I do?” there is always a counterargument: what does the ocean consist of if not drops?

The reasons when an employer requires an employee to write a statement of their own free will can be very different - the company does not have enough money to pay the employee, a personal conflict between the manager and his subordinate, the intention to vacate the position for "his" candidate. But all this does not mean that the employee is obliged to humbly quit just because the employer wants to. On the contrary, in most cases Russian legislation on the side of the workers.

AiF.ru, together with experts, examined in detail the popular questions that arise among employees who are faced with the request of the employer to write a statement of their own free will.

How to behave if the boss requires you to apply for a resignation of your own free will?

In the dismissal of one's own free will, only the employee can be the initiator. Otherwise, it will not be the desire of the employee, but of the employer. Such requests from superiors are illegal.

“If you do not plan to part with the employer, then, of course, you should not write such a statement. I also do not recommend engaging in open confrontation with superiors. First of all, you should clarify with the management what caused such a decision, and, based on the answer, take specific actions, ”advises senior lawyer of the department labor law Institute of Professional Personnel Officer Tatyana Shirnina.

There are several ways out of this situation:

1. Do not write a letter of resignation of your own free will and continue to work as if nothing had happened;
2. Do not write the specified application, but apply to the regulatory authorities with a complaint against the employer;
3. Offer the employer to leave by agreement of the parties with the payment of a certain amount.
   “Often it is the latter option that suits both parties. The employee does not want to be “outdated” from work, and the employer is ready to pay, if only the employee leaves. Therefore, there is always a choice, and it is up to the employee, ”Shirnina emphasizes.

What if the employer is against the contract by agreement of the parties?

It happens that the leader stands his ground and does not want to hear about any agreement of the parties. In this case, he will have to deal with the labor inspectorate. After contacting this service, she must check the employer.

“If these actions did not lead to anything, it is necessary to write a corresponding application to the prosecutor's office. If the appeal to the help of the "eye of the sovereign" did not bring results, the employee should be prepared to defend his interests in court. To this end, it is important to ensure that the evidence base is available in advance,” points out lawyer Vladimir Postaniuk.

If the manager puts pressure

Usually, requests to write such a statement are accompanied by pressure on the employee. If your manager is threatening to get fired, their behavior is a legitimate reason to contact labor inspection, to the court and the prosecutor's office.
“If the manager limited himself to verbal actions when putting pressure on the employee, without resorting to threats to the life and health of the subordinate, then the boss who violated the law will be punished under Part 1. Article 5.27 of the Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation. At the same time, pressure should be understood not simply as a proposal to write a statement that was made at least once. AT without fail a demand should be made implying that if the employee disagrees, he will suffer some kind of damage (he will be fired for an alleged gross violation of labor duties and theft at the workplace), ”explains Postanyuk.
According to him, if there are no aggravating circumstances in the case (repeated commission of a similar crime), then an unscrupulous leader can be overtaken by either a warning or a fine in the amount of 1 to 5 thousand rubles in relation to official or individual entrepreneur. Punishment for legal entities more severely: they are obliged to pay compensation in the amount of 30 to 50 thousand rubles.

“If the employer used violence against his employee, then he will face criminal liability under one of the articles of Ch. 16 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation,” he adds.

What is evidence of pressure being exerted?

According to Shirnina, most often the courts recognize the audio recording of conversations, independently recorded on a dictaphone, as inadmissible evidence.
“Moreover, the courts, as a rule, reject applications for the appointment of a phonographic examination of a dictaphone recording of a conversation. But I must say that even if the recording is not attached to the case, but is heard by the court, this can form the inner conviction of the judge, so it’s worth trying to make such a petition, ”she notes.

What threatens the employer, forcing to write a statement of his own free will?

If an employee turns to the labor inspectorate with a complaint about the illegal actions of the employer, the latter should prepare for an inspection.

“As a rule, it rarely happens when all personnel documents in perfect condition, so the likelihood of being brought to administrative responsibility is quite high, ”Shirnina emphasizes.

“There is no legal way for an employer to seek the dismissal of an employee of their own free will. These actions are basically illegal. The traditional methods of "survival" of an uncompromising employee from the organization are various variations of certain rights of the hired person (primarily - employment contract). Due to this circumstance, the behavior of the leader can be used as a reason for bringing a lawsuit: on charges of slander (Art. 128.1 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation), insult (Art. 5.61 of the Code of Administrative Offenses), etc., ”adds Postanyuk.

Can an employer fire an uncooperative employee?

As practice shows, if an employer decides to get rid of an objectionable employee, he rarely refuses this idea.

However, the manager cannot dismiss an employee just because he refuses to write a statement of his own free will. But he can try to bring the subordinate under one of the grounds. For example, absenteeism or appearing at work while intoxicated.

“An employee who is asked to write a statement of his own free will should be more attentive to his job duties, come to work on time, not be late from lunch, not arrange for himself in working time"smoke breaks" and tea parties. In general, to comply fully labor discipline. In addition, carefully and efficiently carry out their labor obligations, because this employee is under the close attention of the employer, ”advises Shirnina.

"You are not qualified for your position"

Often to the logical questions of employees, “Why are you suggesting that I quit?” The employer replies: “You are not qualified for the position. And the opinion of the leadership on this issue is enough.”

No, not enough. The fact is that the inconsistency of the employee with the position held or the work performed must be confirmed by the results of attestation (part 3, article 81 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation), and not by the subjective opinion of the boss.

“At the same time, the attestation process is applicable only to employees who, by the nature of their activities, are associated with equipment, mechanisms, machines, devices, devices and vehicles, as well as sources of hazards that can have a harmful effect on humans. In addition, it is also necessary to certify specialists who use hand tools in the course of work, including electrified or mechanized ones. The latter implies, among other things, the participation in the procedure of office workers, who spend more than half of their time at the computer. Certification in the specialty is carried out only on the basis of special educational institutions, courses or combines for both private companies and government agencies. Thus, the manager’s ability to influence the certification in a favorable direction is reduced to a minimum, ”says the lawyer.

As a result, the certification mechanism is not available to an unscrupulous employer.

About job description

Not all companies have employees with a job description and a clear area of ​​activity. Can an employer take advantage of the absence job description and dismiss the employee, citing this fact?

"The job description is not binding document, therefore, here it is necessary to build on where the labor function of the employee is prescribed. If it is written directly in the text of the employment contract or in the job description (which the employee is familiar with), then this is one story and the certification procedure can be launched here, and based on its results, a conclusion is made about the employee's inconsistency with the position held.

If job duties and qualification requirements are not registered anywhere for the position held, then the employer cannot dismiss such an employee for inconsistency with the position held, according to the law, ”emphasizes Shirnina.

This is due to the fact that, first of all, it should be understood what the employee does not comply with and what requirements were initially presented to the employee.

“In general, such a basis as an employee’s inconsistency with the position held or work performed due to insufficient qualifications, confirmed by the results of certification, is rather slippery. As a rule, it is the employees who win in such disputes. The very procedure for such a dismissal for commercial organizations is not regulated by law and, as a result, is carried out in violation, the conclusions about the non-compliance of the employee are recognized as biased, ”adds the expert.

Can an employer force an employee to sign a job description after the fact?

The job description prescribes the labor function of the employee, and it is a prerequisite of the employment contract, experts say. Changing (including supplementing) the terms of an employment contract is permissible only with the consent of the employee. Force an employee to sign something without his desire already on time labor activity impossible.

By the way, the absence mandatory condition employment contract is regarded as a violation labor law, for which administrative responsibility is provided (part 3 of article 5.27 of the Code of Administrative Offenses of the Russian Federation),” Shirnina notes.

What if the application has already been written?

Another situation is if the employee nevertheless, under pressure, wrote a letter of resignation, and then went to court with a claim for reinstatement.

According to the expert, in this case it is quite difficult to prove the employer's coercion, since it is the employee's responsibility to prove that he was forced to quit of his own free will.

“However, the employee still has a chance to prove that the employee filed an application of his own free will, because of the fear of being fired. This is evidenced by judicial practice, for example, the ruling of the Nizhny Novgorod Regional Court dated November 20, 2007 in case No. 33-5607. In this decision, the court assessed the employer's threats to fire the employee for absenteeism as a circumstance confirming pressure and compulsion to dismiss. Arbitrage practice on restoration disputes is quite diverse and depends on the specific circumstances of the case, it is always worth fighting for your rights, ”Shirnina sums up.

01.06.2018

Majority employees Russian companies repeatedly faced with the need to delay at the workplace after the end of the working day.

In many firms, overtime has become a permanent practice that is hard enough for workers to fight.

Often the employer forces you to work, putting before the fact: either overtime work, or the company will find another employee who agrees to the conditions set.

What should an employee do if he is forced to work in excess of the norm or does not pay the required amount for processing?

Is it possible to involve an employee in overtime work without consent?

If the employee agrees to extracurricular work, he puts a signature in the statement of agreement, in the order itself or in an additional application.

When refusing additional work worker also must notify the supervisor in writing.

If an agreement between the person and the trade union is necessary, the draft decree is first of all sent to the employee, and then to the members of the trade union organization. Provided that both entities agree and approve the project, another order is issued and again submitted to the employee.

In each new case, the order is reissued. It is unacceptable to draw up planned work for any period and a list of employees for its implementation.

To opt out of recycling, you must collect documents proving the length of the working day:

• accounting sheet;
• labor contract;
• charts;
• internal order.

After collecting all the documents, you need to notify the authorities in writing about the refusal to work overtime. You can always count on the assistance of the labor inspectorate and the trade union.

What do you do if your boss forces you?

When the boss makes you work overtime without the consent of the employee, in order to protect the rights, it is possible apply to the state labor inspectorate, the prosecutor's office or immediately sue.

Trade unions often use this form of defiance as the “Italian strike”, which can also be called work by the rules, when employees strictly fulfill their official duties according to his job description.

Such a fairly safe form of protest is suitable for creative and office workers, who very rarely organize into trade unions.

Someone may not agree, believing that conflict with the employer threatens with dismissal. But it is necessary to understand that to dismiss an employee due to the refusal of both paid and unpaid work in overtime Or the weekend, no.

Dismissal without consent, especially when he "works strictly according to the rules", the procedure is very complicated and costly for the authorities. In most cases it is easier to negotiate.

Provided that the employee cannot prove his case in a trade union or court, the employer will still force him to work after hours, it is worth thinking about changing jobs.

Where to complain if they do not pay extra for processing?

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My question is from the area of ​​labor law. When I arrived at work yesterday, I found out that I was fired from today. That means you don't have to go to work today. They gave me one day to sign the bypass sheet. I didn't write any statement. I had no reprimands or warnings. Employed officially, according to the work book. My dismissal was explained by the fact that, they say, I can not cope with my duties. I have not yet received my salary for March, my salary is white by 20%, everything else, as they say, is in an envelope. They said that if I was indignant about the dismissal, they would calculate the white salary for both March and April.

Hello

My question is from the area of ​​labor law. When I arrived at work yesterday, I found out that I was fired from today. That means you don't have to go to work today. They gave me one day to sign the bypass sheet. I didn't write any statement. I had no reprimands or warnings. Employed officially, according to the work book. My dismissal was explained by the fact that, they say, I can not cope with my duties. I have not yet received my salary for March, my salary is white by 20%, everything else, as they say, is in an envelope. They said that if I was indignant about the dismissal, they would calculate the white salary for both March and April. Moreover, they were obliged to quit within one day, otherwise they will issue absenteeism and dismissed under the article. What should I do in this situation? What to do to get at least a salary for March. I really look forward to your answer, because tomorrow I will have problems. They are not allowed to work.

Eugene, Moscow

Answer

Hello Eugene

We cannot tell you what to do, but we can assess the legality of the employer's actions. Since you did not apply to the employer with a statement about the termination of the employment contract at the initiative of the employee (at your own request), the actions of the employer are illegal. Termination of the employment contract under paragraph 3 of Article 77 Labor Code(termination of the employment contract at the initiative of the employee) is unlawful without a corresponding application from the employee. In this regard, be prepared for the fact that the employer, in order to comply with the procedure for terminating the employment contract at the initiative of the employee, will also insist that you write an appropriate application.

What should you do? First of all, do not write a letter of resignation of your own free will. But in this case, be prepared for the fact that the employer will look for a reason to terminate the employment contract with you on one of the grounds provided for in Article 81 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation (termination of the employment contract at the initiative of the employer) and, possibly, create unbearable conditions for work, forcing you thereby write a letter of resignation of your own free will.

Is your employer not allowing you to work? In this case, there is a downtime due to the fault of the employer. According to Article 157 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation, on the beginning of downtime caused by reasons that make it impossible for the employee to continue to fulfill his labor function, the employee is obliged to inform his immediate supervisor, another representative of the employer. That is, in this case, you have the right to apply to the employer with a statement about the start of downtime due to the fault of the employer (in this case, it is advisable to transfer the application under the mark on your copy in the acceptance of the application by the employer). Downtime due to the fault of the employer, according to the same article 157 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation, is indeed paid in the amount of at least two-thirds of the average wages worker.

Downtime is not classified by Article 107 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation as a type of rest time, and therefore, during the downtime period, the employee must be at the workplace. I understand that in your case this is at least strange, given that the employer does not let you work. In this case, in order not to provide the employer with a reason for dismissal at the initiative of the employer on such grounds as absenteeism, I recommend that you come to work with another person every day so that if a labor dispute arises this person confirmed that, due to circumstances beyond your control, you could not appear at your workplace.

If, nevertheless, the employment contract with you is terminated in accordance with paragraph 3 of Article 77 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation, you have the right to the period provided for in Article 392 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation (1 month from the date of issuance to you work book or from the date of issuance of a copy of the dismissal order) to challenge the dismissal in judicial order. However, in this case, be prepared for the fact that if the court is satisfied statement of claim and you will be reinstated at work:

• Wages will be paid to you official (that is, provided for by the employment contract).
• Time forced absenteeism(if of course this requirement will be declared by you) will also be paid based on the official salary.
• The employer will look for a reason to terminate the employment contract with you on one of the grounds provided for in Article 81 of the Labor Code of the Russian Federation.